Bucket List

Memento mori. Remember you will die.

A couple of years before I reach the big 4-0, it may be morbid to be even thinking about a bucket list. While granted I may still have a long life ahead of me, death is inevitable and its discussion something we should not shy upon.

I just sound so adult saying that, but somehow the idea of a bucket list accidentally crossed my mind while I was looking for something in my blog. Tomorrow is never promised.

Back in March 2014, I recounted how I almost kicked the bucket towards the end of 2013. I’ve re-read that recollection a couple of minutes ago and found myself a bit teary eyed. I forgot almost half of the details of what I wrote at the time. I literally had a brush with death, and about 9 years after, here I am writing this post now.

I also remember how back in December 2016, I suddenly just cried while we were inside Myeongdong Cathedral. I was very grateful to be back. It was unimaginable. I was overwhelmed with emotions that time as it felt surreal to be back at the exact place 4 years after when in December 2013, I was already at the hospital fighting for my life. Now that I recall it, I pondered that time:

Oh, this time last year, it was my first winter“.

Oh, those days. It got me thinking: what are the things I am looking forward to?

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It is already March 2022

It has been more than a year and 1 month since I last posted. Where was I the whole time?

This blog will be turning 10 this June, when I have first written this entry back in June 1, 2012. But I also have a still active Tumblr page last time I’ve checked, which I first opened when I turned 25. I am turning 37 this year, and I am still here, albeit writing sparingly.

Proof of Life 2022

Unfiltered proof of life 2022: if there is one thing I have learned in the last few months, it was moisturizing. I knew at one point all those all-nighters will catch up on me. >o<

So where do we start?

Twenty twenty-one had been a pivotal year for me. I had never been more adult than the year that was. Remember my house in the uplands which I last visited in January 2013? It took about 6 years until the 4th quarter of 2019 for me to visit again the property, which had expectedly seen a state of neglect.

I was determined to start being serious with it again by that time, but the pandemic hit. Everything was put to a stop. It took until March 2021 for me to get the ball rolling with the renovation of the property because of Ulysses from November 2020.

That whole renovation process and the successful full payment of my Pag-Ibig loan (19 years and 10 months ahead of the maturity date) deserve their own post, so I’ll just share this before and after:

Our townhouse - before and after

Our townhouse: before from March 2021, and after from August 21, 2021. Notice I even had to spraypaint my name by the door because there were several people reportedly claiming the property when I neglected it. Good thing there were no trespassers.

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